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Note About Emails
First
impressions count. You're not going to get very far with one line emails to other
sex contacts on the SDate sex dating site such as "Hey baby, do you want
a shag?" like some people do in chat
rooms. Most genuine adults will ignore those as it sounds like a child
in an adult chatroom.
Imagine if you were a salesperson working for a large corporation - you
wouldn't call your prospective clients and yell down the phone "HEY DUDE,
COME AND BUY MY GADGETS" if you were seriously intending on getting an order,
would you? If you did, you'd be soon out of a job. No, you would be polite, introducing
yourself and your company, telling them more about your products and services,
and you would make a genuine effort to find out more about their requirements,
and then after that you would arrange to meet them to 'close the sale'. You may
not even get the order on the first visit, and some follow up activity may be
required.
Apply
the same technique to your prospective casual sex dates, and you're guaranteed
to 'close more sales'! It just needs a little tact and patience, and you'll get
your satisfaction - time and time again.   
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Dont
behave differently simply because you're on the internet - SDate is after all
a live meet-for-real dating site for genuine sex contacts, not a cyber sex chat
room for geeks who only hide behind a PC. Make your email enticing and informative.
If you are using the SMS text messaging service to mobile/cell phones, the
same rules apply, although you obviously need to be more concise. Exciting
as Hell
Free
sex with a stranger on a one night stand can definitely be exciting, if not erotic
as hell. You don't really know the depth of the person your going to have fun
with, and the exploratory nature of the relationship adds to the fun. If they're
a vocal person who makes specific demands, then its different. Now, it's quite
likely that they're aware that this is probably no more than just an orgasmic
night of gratification, so you don't need to say things like, "I hope you
know, this means nothing," or even, "I'll call you in the morning."
Don't say anything at all about what it is or where it's heading; they're not
stupid. If they ask, then be honest, but otherwise, just enjoy the moment. 
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“No
strings attached” does not mean you can get away with treating the other
person as less than human. Neither does it give you a license to be rude, dishonest,
and mean. Show each other mutual respect, and behave as you would like to be treated
yourself. If you're going to be late, call and let them know. If you've changed
your mind, tell them. If you treat people nicely, you will get more dates, and
you will have more fun. It's simple as that. Before
you Meet
Not
everyone is a drop-dead gorgeous super-model, so there's no need to pretend you're
somebody you're not. Be confident in yourself and who you are, be down to earth
and you'll have a lot more fun. When communicating with your prospective partner,
be as honest as possible in describing yourself, what you like, and what you're
looking for. Send a current and real photograph. On the sex encounter, follow
the advice below for hygiene and dress, and you cant go far wrong.   
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Sexual
attraction is a subjective thing, and everyone has different views. If your "just
looking for a hole" then fine, but otherwise it's always advantageous to
exchange photos beforehand or at least a detailed description. Check the photos
are recent, and that they are not downloaded from some porn site. If you cant
get a photo, at least get a detailed description of the things that matter to
you - body type, height, weight/dress-size, hair length and colour, tattoes/piercings?,
type of clothes, origin, skin colour, occupation and so on. It will save yours
and their time being wasted.   
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"If
you're not attracted to the person in the photo, tell them straight that they're
not your type. Dont be offensive, and on the receiving end, dont be offended.
Its a big wide world and you'll find someone else easily. Delete the email and
move on." Where
to Meet
Its
always best to first meet a stranger in a public place, perhaps in a bar or cafe
or outside a station or shopping mall. That way you can have a brief chat and
a drink, and suss each other out before moving onto better things. If it doesn't
hit off, or the contact's not the person you expected them to be, you can then
always make your excuse and politely leave. Be
specific where to meet and exchange contact numbers in case one of you is delayed.
Some people prefer to use an alternative mobile/cell number Or use the number
of local public payphone.
Also, tell a friend where you are going before leaving.
 
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Better
to be Safe
Now
there are no arguments on this one - you must absolutely, positively use protection
at all times. Even if she claims she's on the Pill, you still have to wear a condom
because there's a lot more potential damage available than just a baby. STDs are
horrible and can even lead to death, and no night of free sex is worth your funeral.
Although a one-night stand is all about fun, you shouldn't have to worry about
the possible dire consequences the morning after. Go equipped.
If
you're arranging a late-night casual encounter, then at least try to speak to
the sex contact on the phone beforehand. It may save a wasted journey, and you'll
avoid the odd few who pretend to be another gender. Its quiet easy to detect a
"21 year old" when you hear a 40+ year voice on the phone! Keep
it Clean
First
and foremost, before you go out, take a very deep cleansing shower and scrub everywhere.
Get into all those little nooks and crannies, especially if you want your sidekick
to enjoy giving you a tongue-lashing experience. Oh yeah, and try not to sweat
up a storm at the club either. Make sure that your hands are washed, you smell
good and for goodness sake, chew some minty gum... it can make a world of difference.
Also, carefully select your outfit to give you that air of confidence. Now,
depending on what your partners been up to, going downtown to pay their privates
a visit is somewhat dicey. If they've been at work all day or a at a club dancing
away, then its not recommended that you open wide for a taste of the gravy train
-- it won't be very tantalizing. If you're in a hotel room, bring her into the
shower with you or better yet, the Jacuzzi. That way you'll both come out clean
and enjoy each other's bodies enthusiastically.
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Taking
Them Home
If
you don't live alone or worse, you live with your parents, then don't bring them
to your place for free sex. They might not be comfortable no matter how tipsy
they are. The whole point of a one-night stand is to ensure a wild evening of
passion, rather than having to shush one another the entire way through. As with
personal hygiene before, make sure your place is clean and tidy before you leave
the houseThere's
nothing that can ruin the moment like your lady watching you remove half of your
wardrobe off the bed -- not exactly a sexual mood enhancer if you know what I
mean. Also, make sure that your favorite music is already in the CD player for
easy access. And you should also have alcohol handy in order to make her a drink.
 
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On
a one night stand you might not be seeing each other again, so always be aware
of the rare opportunist, who might make off with your wife's diamond ear-rings
or your boyfriends car keys! Tuck your obvious valuables away before you leave
home. If
you already began your sexual adventure in the car on the way to your place, then
screw the music (not literally) and once you open the door to your house, put
her up against the wall and kiss her as though she's water and you've been stuck
on a desert for 4 years. Women love spontaneity, but don't begin ravishing her
right away.   
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Foreplay
is important even if it may be the last time you ever see her (depending on how
good it is, of course). Even if all you want to do is penetrate her into oblivion,
remember that this is your chance to be creative and make her delve into kinky
aspects of herself that she never knew existed. Don't
end up crouching on your couch with your elbow cutting off the circulation in
her arm. Make sure you're in a space that is comfortable and roomy so that you
can maneuver freely. Places like the bed, a covered floor and even a nice dining
room table are adequate. Now you both know that you're ultimately going to have
sex, its best that you delay penetration until she tells you, or rather begs you,
to penetrate her.  
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Kiss
her mouth, lick her neck, bite her back, chew her hips, and nibble on her breasts
for as long as you can. Don't completely neglect her vagina, however, instead
use your fingers on her clitoris to hit that G-spot that we all love so much.
The idea is to treat her body as though it was specifically designed for you.
You can lightly outline the silhouette of her body and then hold on to her hips
while you lift her up to kiss her tummy. She'll be begging for it.
Sex gets better once you know a person and what they want.
If you had a good night, arrange to meet again, it can only get better the next
time. Considering
it's a one-night-stand thing, try to make it as kinky, crazy and sexually fulfilling
as possible - for both of you. But be careful, there's only one danger.....because
after you use these helpful tips, what you thought was a one-night stand may turn
into several months of fulfilling sexual indulgence. Enjoy your SDate Casual
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