Many
members of SDate are looking for additional
free sexual satisfaction beyond what they
may be getting in an existing relationship.
Others are sexually inexperienced and want
to learn more, or want to experiment with
new things in a casual sex relationship, or
even act out a fetish sex fantasy. We therefore
present some definitions of common abbreviations
and sex terms that may be used in personals
by SDate members looking for casual sex contacts.
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| Term |
Description |
| :)
:-) |
smiley,
indicates humor or sarcasm |
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| 69 |
mutual
oral sex |
| bang |
sexual
intercourse |
| bareback |
Slang
term for having sex without using a condom. |
| BDSM |
Bondage,
discipline and sadomasochism |
| bbw |
big
beautiful woman or big busty woman |
| bi |
bi-sexual |
| Bi-Curious |
Interested
or curious about same sex activities |
| bbj |
bare
blow job (without a condom), see also cim |
| Bird-Watching: |
Term
for performing oral sex on a man, and then swallowing
the semen. |
| bj |
blowjob |
| Bondage |
Sexual
activity involving restraints |
| Boner: |
erection |
| BTW
|
by
the way |
| casual
sex |
sex
without any relationship commitment |
| cim
|
cum
in mouth |
| Cock
Tease: |
Slang
term for someone who intentionally sexually
arouses a male but does not follow through with
sexual activity. |
| Corn
Cob: |
dildo |
| Cunninglus |
Oral
sex involving the vagina and clitoris |
| cyber |
short
for cybersex |
| D&S
|
Dominance
and Submission |
| Daisy
Chain |
Partner
(A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B)
who is sucking off or eating out partner (C)
and so on until the final person is sucking
off or eating out partner (A). Partners can
be gay, lesbian or straight. |
| DDF |
Disease/Drug
Free. |
| Dogging |
unprotected
sex with strangers in public places (eg. car
parks, country parks) |
| Dominant |
Men
or women in control of a submissive partner
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| Deep
Tongue |
Term
for french kissing, or oral-vaginal sex where
the tongue is inserted deep inside the vagina. |
| DFK |
Deep
French Kiss |
| Doggy
Style |
sexual
intercourse where the male is situated behind
the female |
| Dry
Humping |
Slang
term for simulating intercourse by rubbing up
against a partner while fully clothed. |
| Dungeon |
A
room designed for S&M play |
| Escorts |
Prostitutes
or call girls. Most escorts are women (or men)
who have sex or perform other services profesionally
for money, although a few are just companions
for dinner and city tours. read
more about escorts and escort agencies |
| Exhibitionist |
A person who is aroused by others watching him/her
in sexual activities or enjoy showing off their
bodies. |
| Face
Sitting |
woman
sitting on a man's face, smothering him while
he performs oral sex on her |
| Facial |
Slang
term for ejaculating on someone's face |
| felching
|
consuming
the resultant semen after anal sex. |
| Fellatio |
Oral
sex involving stimulation of the penis (aka
Blow Job) |
| Fetish |
Sexual
arousal by non sexual objects or non sexual
parts of the body ie. feet, fingers, stockings
ect |
| Finger
Fuck |
female
masturbation or inserting one's fingers into
the vagina |
| first
base |
kissing |
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| fisting
|
inserting
a whole hand into either the vagina or the anus
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| Foot
Job |
Rubbing
the penis with the feet until ejaculation |
| Fox |
an
attractive female |
| French
Kiss |
Slang
term for kissing with the tongue. |
| Frenchie |
a
condom |
| frottage
/ frotter |
sexual
pleasure from rubbing against another person
while clothed (particularly by rubbing against
a stranger in a public place). |
| gang
bang |
many
men having sex with one woman simultaneously,
or in rapid succession. |
| Greek |
Anal
sex |
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| Group
Sex |
Sex
between three or more people |
| Hedonist
|
People
who live for pleasure |
| Horse
Around |
foreplay |
| Jugs |
breasts |
| Lady's
Best Friend |
a
dildo or vibrator |
| Lipstick
Lesbian |
A
lesbian who is attractive and who displays traditional
female characteristics. |
| LJBF
|
let's
just be friends |
| Masochism |
Sex
involving pain or humiliation |
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Tit
fucking is
a pleasurable and safe way to enjoy natural
skin-2-skin sex
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| m4w |
man
looking for a woman |
| Midnight
Cowboy |
a
vibrator or dildo |
| MILF |
Mom
I'd Like to Fuck - refers to older good looking
women read
more about milfs |
| MM |
mutual
masturbation |
| Nooner |
a
sexual encounter during lunch hour |
| nsa |
no
strings attached |
| Nymphomaniac |
a
woman who desires frequent sex |
| One
Night Stand |
Casual
sex for one night, usually with a stranger,
without any commitment. Some people have serial
one night stands as a habit. |
| Open
Relationship |
a
relationship in which both partners have agreed
to date or have sex with other people |
| Orgy |
Group
sex with several men and women |
| Outercourse |
Sexual
Activity that does not include inserting the
penis in the vagina or anus |
| owo |
oral
sex without a condom |
| Pansexual |
A
person who is attracted to all genders and all
forms of sex |
| Pearl
Necklace |
ejaculating
on a woman's chest |
| Phone
Sex |
Talking
dirty, and/or the act of mutual masturbation
or fondling while talking on the telephone read
more about phone sex |
| Pop
a Cherry |
sexual
intercourse with someone who has never had sexual
intercourse before |
| Quickie |
a
brief and quick sexual encounter |
| Rim/Rimming |
licking
the anus with the tongue |
| Role
Play |
To
act out a fantasy or desire with a partner |
| Rookie |
someone
who is sexually inexperienced |
| Safe
Sex |
Sexual
encounter in which each individual protects
themselves against disease, usually by using
a condom or avoiding contact with bodily fluids.
read
more about safe sex |
| Sluts |
liberal
females who love sex and like to sleep around
with multiple partners read
more about sluts |
| SO
|
significant
other |
| Sugar
Daddy |
a
rich supportive older man looking for a younger
dependent female |
|
Wham-Bam!
- a quick casual encounter
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| swinging
|
consensual
sex involving the exchange of marital partners
for sexual purposes |
| Straight |
Person
not interested in homosexual activities |
| S
& M |
Sadism
and masochism |
| Submissive |
A
person wanting to be dominated |
| Threesome |
a
group of three people engaging in sex. |
| Tit
Fuck/Tittie Fuck |
placing
the penis in the cleavage of a woman's breasts
and thrusting, mimicking intercourse. |
| Train |
When
a group of people have sex with one person,
taking turns one after the other |
| Transsexual
|
A
person converted from one gender to another
or is in the process |
| Transvestite |
A
person wearing clothes of the opposite sex |
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Dogging
- outdoor sex in public
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| UC |
uncut,
or uncircumcised |
| Vanilla
Sex |
traditional,
not explorative sex |
| Voyeur |
Watching
others involved in sexual activity |
| w/e |
Man
with a well endowed penus |
| Wham-Bam |
a
quick sexual encounter |
| Wife
Swapping |
When
two married couples switch sex partners |
| wltm |
would
like to meet |
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