| DO
post your own profile/photo on the site before sending messages to other contacts
- that way a link to your profile will be automatically included with your message,
your photo will be automatically attached, and it saves both contacts time and
helps you arrange meet-for-real encounters faster. DO
include your own contact details as you wish - telephone number, email address,
icq and so on - so the person can reply directly back to you. We do not filter
messages in this way, as we want the member to be able to contact you direct.
If the member replies to you by email, they will do so from their own email address.
DO try to personalise your reply to the profile above. If you send
the same general-purpose one-line message to all contacts, you are less likely
to get a response. Female members particularly get many responses, so if you are
responding to a female contact, you should try to make your reply enticing and
stand-out from the crowd.
| DO
NOT proposition for fees or attempt to promote
any commercial services. Any messages with offers or URL's related to such activity
will be removed, and your IP address will be blacklisted from sending future messages.
DO
NOT send the same one line message to all members. Female members particularly
get many replies, so try to personalise it and stand out from the crowd. DO
NOT waste other peoples time if you are not genuine. We do try to vet all
contacts with a posting at the outset to ensure they are genuine. If we receive
credible reports that a profile/picture is grossly misleading, or a contact is
requesting fees, we will suspend that person, who will then have a right of response.
If after review, we are satisfied that a breach of the rules has occured, we will
either issue a warning or immediately cancel the subscription without any refund
and/or block the guest email/IP address from future access. Complaints can be
sent to report@sdate.com. |
Other
than the above, you can pretty much say and do what you like as long as its not
illegal. Good luck with your encounters! You
will receive an acknowledgement for each message you send via our site. This will
indicate whether your message was relayed, is being held, or if the member is
inactive. Most emails are relayed instantly, however, please allow some time for
an acknowledgement if our servers are busy. |
